“Having somewhere to go is home, having someone to love is family, having both is a blessing”
-Unknown
When you read this quote, what do you think of? Your hometown? Your parents or siblings? How about your significant other? Everyone is different, but I personally do not consider home to be a single place or family to be just those who are blood related. During my travels this past month across the United States, I have come to realize that although I have been and will be living out of a suitcase for the next few months, I know I will always have somewhere to go and someone who loves me. Therefore, my home is where my family and friends are, whether that be in the Northeast or the Southwest. I am truly blessed to have such amazing people in my life and if you’re curious to learn about where I’ve stayed and what I’ve done throughout August, don’t stop reading just yet. 😊
South Carolina
*Don’t forget that moving out includes cleaning everything…* July 30th was the last time I saw the inside of Campus View apartment 609. I had lived there for a solid two years with some of the best roommates a girl could find, but once everyone else moved out and once I graduated from college, it just didn’t quite feel like home anymore.
Tennessee (July 30th-Aug 2nd)
Visiting father’s extended family
*When on long drives, catch up with friends* I got to Knoxville late on the 30th and stayed with my aunt and uncle. The next day we visited my cousin’s children in Rogersville and hung out with them all day. The two nuggets were super cute, but a little draining :P. The following day my aunt took me shopping and then I prepared all my belongings to be put into storage. This was the second time I visited my family in Tennessee this year and I am so thankful for everything they’ve done and continue to do for me.
Ohio (Aug 2nd– Aug 8th)
Visiting mother’s extended family
*The Akron area offers a ton of natural beauty, including Cuyahoga Falls National Park* My aunt picked me up from the airport and she showed me around town before taking me to see my grandparents. (I’m not going to lie, the days got a little mixed up in my mind, so my timeline might not be chronological.) One of the days, my two aunts took me to Szalay’s Farm and Market and then to the national park near where they lived. One of my aunts invited me to church where I caught up with Pastor Jeanette (Pastor J) who had come to see me graduate. A few days later my aunt and Pastor J ended up taking me into Cleveland. Unfortunately, it was very rainy, so instead of walking around, we all grabbed lunch in Little Italy and ended up at a casino for a few hours. While in Ohio, I also got the chance to catch up with a friend from college who was working out in Columbus, as well as grab lunch with a new friend I met through one of my aunt’s close friends named Mary. I had the opportunity to meet Mary, who was very bubbly and willing to teach me how to make Italian sauce.
Massachusetts(Aug 8th-Aug 13th)
Visiting my friends Hannah and Abigail from college
*Be aware that flying through the Northeast can cause delays due to weather* *If possible, travel light! Carrying suitcases up and down four flights of narrow stairs is not fun* My flight to Boston was delayed several hours, so they switched my connecting flight, which ended up being delayed an extra 30 minutes. Although I didn’t arrive until late in the afternoon, I was fortunately able to have enough time for my friend Abigail to show me around the North End a bit. The North End is known for its Italian influence, so you best believe that we ate all the pasta, pizza and cannolis. I did try a cannoli from each of the four big pastry shops: Mike’s, Modern, Maria’s, Bova’s; but I will not state my ranking because it is a highly debated topic in the area :P. The second day, both Hannah and Abigail took me along the Freedom Trail and through several of the public parks, as well as the public library. The following days Hannah and I explored Cambridge and the South End where we did a brewery tour. The three of us also visited some of Abigail’s family outside the city and I ended my trip with a day at the beach, or at least I thought…
Texas (Aug 13th-Aug 17th)
Visiting my brother and his girls
*Beat the heat by staying inside air conditioned rooms* Turns out my flights got delayed again, so I ended up spending one more night in Boston before waking up bright and early to catch my flight to San Antonio. While in Texas, I spent most of my time with my nieces and their mother’s family. This was my first time meeting my youngest niece, Alita, which was very exciting. After taking her to a dentist appointment the first day I arrived, my two nieces, their mother, their uncle, their grandmother, and I all went to Six Flags Fiesta Texas. Later that night, I got the chance to hang out with my brother and catch up a bit. A lot of time here was spent watching TV and playing with the girls’, while also running a few errands here and there. One day my brother took me and his other daughter Davina to the McNay Museum. It had some beautiful art with big names like Picasso and Warhol.
California (Aug 17th– Aug 30th)
Going home and visiting friends
*If you get sick, take a break. It may seem obvious, but if you have things to do, then you tend to not always follow the rules :P* I managed to avoid any delays on the flight to Los Angeles and landed bright and early for Ellie to pick me up. She took me to get tamales and then we walked around and did some shopping before we headed up to La Cañada. After that I met up with my friends Sam and Travis for a while before calling it a night and crashing at about 8:30/9. Most of my time here has consisted of meeting up with high school friends and work friends that I haven’t seen or talked with in a while. As much fun as I’ve had, I’ve also gotten a little sick. Catching up with everyone is fun and ideal, but I have to get better at not spreading myself too thin. Doing too much over the course of a short time can catch up to you and for me, that meant catching a virus. I guess some lessons you just have to learn more than once :P. Apart from that, I’ve also begun to pull things together for my trip to Costa Rica where I plan on getting certified to teach English as a foreign language. My last night here was spent watching the Clemson football game against Georgia Tech with some good friends and I wouldn’t have had it any other way!
Thanks for reading! Next time I post, I will officially be in Costa Rica :0. It’s kinda crazy, but exciting. See you then!